.. but you can call me George. As you can probably tell, I'm new to this whole blogging thing.
I started this blog to express how I feel without trying to offend anyone, this can't be done on Facebook due to the bitchiness etc etc.
Anyway, recently I have patched things up with people and then fell out with other people.. and it's made me realise how much things have changed since Year 11 (a year ago)
I used to actually believe that having lots and lots of friends at school was the answer.. but actually it's not. I can now safely say I'd rather have just a handful of TRUE friends then just knowing lots of people (that probably stab you in the back whatever chance they get)
Also, I've learnt that when things are starting to look bad between you and friends/a friend.. then just let them go. Time changes everything and nothing will ever stay the same! And once you have let them go (by agreeing things have changed and people grow apart) then thats the end of it, be civil.. say hello.. don't just fall out for the sake of it.
Another thing about friends.. I know as everyone gets older, relationships become more serious, but this doesn't mean you completely ditch all of your friends. Yeah it's nice to want to be with your boyfriend/girlfriend all of the time, but when you get together with friends, just to chill out, you will realise that you really need them.. who's going to be there when things start to look rough in your relationship? Who has always been your shoulder to cry on?
Besides, being together with your boyfriend/girlfriend 24/7 will most likely cause arguements because your in eachothers space the whole time. You have your own life too, you know. It's not all about being loved up, just remember the ones that have always been there, or you'll end up with no one.
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